The common theme in having a group of Sisters-In-Christ is that we are social beings that we should spend less time isolating ourselves in our busy, busy lives. There is so much tearing down of women in society when it should be our duty to uphold each other. We have the power to change the conversation when women are being torn down about their bodies, their choices, about how they choose to show up in the world and instead lead by example by having healthy, happy female friendships. As Sisters-In-Christ continue gathering together, we find that Christ is encountered through the worship, the preaching of the Word, prayer together, and the fellowship of other believers.
This is so important that God’s Word says, “Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another–and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” (Hebrews 10:25). We are not meant to walk with Christ alone. We need each other. Christ dwells not only in the believer’s heart; he dwells in a unique way among believers who have gathered in his name. Jesus acknowledged this when he said, “For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst.” (Matthew 18:20).
Friendships are vitally important as we trust God for a spouse. But single women are not the only ones who need these friendships, maybe just a little more. Let’s not forget to mentor little sisters too, whether blood related or not. Friendships between girls seem so beneficial, yet I too have always had trouble forming deep friendships with other woman. Building close friendships can require change and risk, but it is possible! Whether you are single or married, the purpose of friendship is growth through encouragement. Today I’m very thankful for the blessing of my friendships with other women.
